The Next Big Thing

I'm aware that I am awful at blogging, but now I am home! 

I have been pretty busy since my plane landed on the 24th! I've been playing with my niece endlessly, eating way too much, shopping just enough and buying only a few things here and there! I'm doing pretty good not emptying out my pockets. 

Seriously, this lil' girl is my pride and joy. She's just about 5 months old and she has me wrapped around her little, tiny, baby finger. Her little baby laugh is the sweetest thing in the world and I just can't take my eyes off of her sweet face. I just want to hold her and never let her grow up. 

On Thursday, I saw the flashing sign at the soccer stadium near my house flashing Jason Aldean's name and decided I might try to get some tickets. Turns out, I scored amazing seats right on the field. I took my friend and had the time of my life. Jason Aldean put on a great show and I knew every song he sang. It felt so strange to just be acting like a regular old...girl, but it was the good kind of strange. 


Seriously, we were freaking out about how great our seats were the whole time...I don't know how on Earth I got so lucky. 

Later that night, we went out to the west side of Utah Lake and did the most red neck camping I have ever done. Complete with beer cans in the fire pit and sleeping on an air mattress on the back of a four-wheeler trailer.  Don't get me wrong though, it was probably the funnest camping I have done in a while. In the morning we shot a few rounds from all the weapons we brought along with us and the guys did some four-wheeling around the windy trails.  It was definitely worth the trip out there. 


In other news, I'm getting ready to move down to UNLV so, I'm doing my best to save up my money and not go too crazy.  In the next couple of weeks I am going back to work at my civilian job, buying a car (oh my gosh...talk about anxiety!) and getting the heck out of Utah, again! 

I suppose that now that this little chapter of military training has ended, it's time to move onto the next big thing!

Twenty Something

Because I have been so ridiculously busy the past few months, I haven't really had the time to reflect on the fact that I'm twenty years old.

I had my 20th birthday on some lame old Tuesday in AIT. I didn't do anything special or feel different. I still don't really feel different, but now that I think about it, I really want to be sure that I make the most of my twenties.

The greatness of you life is measured by the experiences that you have. As a twenty-something you should be having the most interesting times of your life. Right?

Well, I think so. Personally, I think I'm about to have some seriously great adventures.

I started writing in this little log book about being Twenty. I'm hoping to keep at least one little journal for each year of my twenties. I know how hard it can be to keep up with a journal so it's a tough goal, but I think that when I am 30 and I look back on it, I will be so happy to have volumes of my twenties.









With this long weekend, I've been staying up a little bit later than usual, having some good conversations with a good friend over seas. I don't think I have laughed so hard in a very long time.

I'm sure it's hard to understand why this was so funny. In fact, I don't know why I laughed so hard, but I was brushing my teeth and tooth paste was going everywhere and I literally could not stop. We were having this tender "best friends" like moment and then...BAM! Evil face...

You're probably thinking, what the heck does that have to do with being 20? Well, that guy I was talking to is someone that I had to gather up my pride and maturity to forgive and stay friends with him...I think that was a pretty...20 something sort of thing to do! Or I just thought it was hilarious and had to share. 

On the Fourth of July nearly my whole building went out to the soccer field behind the chow hall to go watch the firework. It felt like a normal Summer night just like as if I was at home. It was fantastic! The fireworks show was great and it was a good night to be a young soldier, that is for sure. 








And finally, I keep meaning to post this before/after picture of my hair cut, but I keep forgetting! So here it is! I think I look so different, but I'm really digging this hair cut. My friend told me that I look like a "true hooah". I decided to just ignore him. I'm loving this. 

So far, my 20s aren't so bad. I mean, I've only been twenty for nearly two months, but I haven't got any complaints just yet! Hopefully it stays that way!

Until next time my lovelies! 

Live And Learn

Every day, I learn something new. 

Since I've been active in the Army, I've learned even more. 

I have learned that being away from home really isn't all that hard. Home is where ever you have a place to lay your head. 

Cutting your hair really isn't all that traumatic. It's just hair, and chances are, you're going to like it better. 

Skipping chow is the worst idea ever. At all time...no matter how much you want to sleep in. 

Being able to cook your own food is a true luxury. 

It pays to be organized.  It means you get to sleep a little bit later. 

Working out is always a good idea. 

People don't stay in touch. Even if they say they will...they probably won't.

Sleeping in is overrated. 

Letters make you smile more than anything else. 

You will find support in the strangest places. 

Forgive. But never forget. 

Be resilient. It's worth it. 

Don't take anything personally. 

Allow yourself to be surprised. 

I've decided that it's best to just live and learn...Life is better that way. 

Warriors In Transition

Being a Soldier is something that once you get the hang of it, it's easy. I've said that a couple of time before. You get used to it and I have really grown to love it.
In fact, I'm going to be really sad to go back to civilian life after I leave here. I've gotten so used to this routine. I have a standard way of doing everything, and my whole world is going to be shaken when I go back to being that "Weekend Warrior". 

Well, it just so happens that Soldiers all over the country are in the same boat. They are so used to the military life style, they have trouble adjusting. They get into the civilian sector of employment and bare know where to begin. Well, you're in luck, because today, I have an awesome guest who has a bit to say on the subject!

Meet Emma!
 Emma is my newest bloggy friend! She is a 20-something with a passion for life, love, fitness, and helping others. She loves to be active and get involved in as many sport and community activities as possible. Emma is currently studying to become a Career & Life Coach, and loves to network with people from around the world! She is the author of the lovely blog Smile As It Happens 



Transitioning from military to civilian life can seem overwhelming. After an intense commitment, constant orders and a regulated lifestyle, you might think that entering the civilian job market will be an impossible adjustment. Let me be the first to reassure you: Finding civilian work will take time, but you can do it. Many services exist to help ease this difficult transition, and you won't be alone. You can follow your passions using the skills and determination you learned in the armed forces, and many employers offer veteran preference. Check out the following myths on military job transitions and the reality behind them.

Myth #1: It's too hard and takes too much time to apply for jobs.
Truth: This is the easiest myth to dispel because it's simply not true. Back in the days before digital applications and electronic job postings, people might have spent hours filling out paperwork and submitting resumes in person. These days, you can do just about everything online. Many major employers like AT&T, Walmart and GM have started to partner with platforms such as JIBE, a mobile recruiting company in an effort to streamline the application process. These services utilize mobile apps on your smartphone or tablet and allow you to submit job-related paperwork on-the-go.

Myth #2: I've been in the military for so long that I won't be able to find adequate employment.
Truth: Many employers actually offer preference to veterans. Why is this? The fact is that military veterans possess a diverse range of skills and expertise that many employers find attractive. You've learned discipline, perseverance, endurance, analytical skills, critical thinking skills and other qualities that put you in a better position than many civilian applicants. You even have access to recruiting firms like Recruit Military that specialize in helping you transition from the military to civilian employment.

Myth #3: I need to take the first job offered because I desperately need a job.
Truth:In reality, employers look for people who will stay with them long-term. If you take a job and hate it, you'll be more likely to leave once something opens up somewhere else. This is mutually disadvantageous, which means you should avoid taking a job just to take a job. Desperation benefits no one, especially you. If you can afford to wait, then you should hold out until you find the right job. You'll be happier, and better experience and be able to commit to the right employer. It's a win-win situation that's worth the wait.

Myth #4: Since I'm used to taking orders, I should just settle for a non-management position.
Truth: You might be used to taking orders, but that skill actually translates into strong leadership ability. As a military veteran, you've learned to work with a variety of people while answering to a chain of command. These skills will help you lead others and further your career. If you're interested in starting a business or getting into a management track, then a variety of resources exist to help you do just this. The U.S. Small Business Administration helps veterans take classes and develop their entrepreneurial skills and programs such as this can be invaluable tools if you’re looking to strike out on your own.

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